4. Reverse the interactions to make it appear as if they are trying to pull you
Never appear desperate or like you are trying too hard. The opposing person will sense this, and they may end up playing hard to get. You then, in turn, may lose confidence and get nowhere – it is a vicious cycle! To break this cycle you can reframe your interactions and put the boot on the other foot so to speak. You can turn what the other person is saying against them, so it appears that they are trying to win you over for a sexual engagement!
A simple example could be this – She says “I’m just nipping to the bathroom”, you could respond by saying, “Whoa hold on there – that’s quite forward, I’ve only known you for 5 minutes and you want me to go to the bathroom?” In this example, you have turned something seemingly innocent to your advantage and also taken the pressure off you.